You want change but cannot name what you actually want
Career, relationships, location, money, and lifestyle are connected, so every possible move seems to threaten something else you value.
Use AI to separate facts, values, constraints, and options when life feels unclear. Compare 3 Skills for life planning, hard decisions, and sustained action.
When life feels unclear, the problem is often not a total lack of ideas. Facts, emotion, other people's expectations, and fear are tangled together. AI cannot tell you which path is guaranteed to be right, but it can separate the pieces, reveal assumptions, and turn “What should I do?” into a smaller decision you can test.
Career, relationships, location, money, and lifestyle are connected, so every possible move seems to threaten something else you value.
When considering a job change, move, breakup, commitment, or major purchase, assumptions can feel like facts and fear of regret can keep the decision looping.
The goal is ambitious, yet there is no weekly task, workable pace, or review loop. Urgent work keeps displacing the direction you say matters.
Use AI as a questioning mirror: map the whole situation, examine one concrete decision, and then turn direction into an action system you can review. The three Skills below match those three stages.
Useful life guidance starts with context, not the question “How should I live?” Explain what is true now, what you value, what constrains you, and what you fear losing. These three Skills are best used for the big picture, one hard choice, and sustained execution.
Use this when several areas feel tangled and you first need to separate the present situation, goals, constraints, and priorities.
Map the overall situation, then examine direction and action across career, relationships, learning, finances, and health.
Life guidance for direction and major decisions ac… Read the full description →
This is the best fit when the whole situation feels messy and you do not know what to handle first. It builds a broad frame across the present situation, goals, actions, and cautions, and it can follow changes across later conversations. Its wide scope is useful for orientation, not for replacing medical, legal, investment, or other qualified advice.
Do not stop at “I feel lost.” Use the structure situation, values, constraint, and first change. For example: “I have spent five years at a stable company but feel stalled. I have six months of savings and worry that a job change will affect my family. Map the problem first, then give me a four-week exploration plan.”
Use this when the direction is clear enough to break into goals, cadence, review, and ongoing adjustment.
Use a four-part life operating system to manage direction, daily execution, knowledge, and periodic review.
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Once the direction is reasonably clear, the hard part is continuing. This Skill connects goal setting, task management, learning, and review, making it useful when you know what you want to change but daily work keeps interrupting it. It is an action system, not crisis support or psychotherapy.
Pick one meaningful goal for the next 8–12 weeks instead of designing a perfect system for your whole life. For example: “I want to finish a career-change portfolio in 12 weeks. I have 45 minutes on weekdays and three hours on weekends. Create milestones, this week's actions, review questions, and rules for what to cut when the plan is overloaded.”
DeepSkill indexes 400K+ Skills, and every Skill undergoes security review and risk validation. Life guidance is broad, and a query such as “What should I do?” often produces advice that sounds correct but cannot be used. Rewrite the task around one present situation: the decision, known facts, constraints, and the time horizon for visible progress.
Describe the life area, time horizon, known facts, constraints, and the output you want.
Read the public description to confirm whether the Skill maps the big picture, analyzes one decision, or supports long-term execution.
Copy the install prompt, then test one reversible, low-risk problem and check whether the Skill separates facts from assumptions and proposes a usable next step.
Send the instruction below if you want your agent to find Skills during a task. Once installed, DeepSkill can search for and install Skills that match the current task. The instruction works with mainstream agents such as Codex, Claude Code, and WorkBuddy.
Install DeepSkill according to https://www.deepskill.market/deepskill.md.AI is most useful when it makes a life problem more concrete rather than pretending to own the answer. Use life-guide when several areas feel tangled and you need priorities; life-decision-navigator when you face one explicit choice and want to test assumptions, bias, and values; and life-os when the direction is clear enough to become a weekly system of action and review. Major medical, legal, financial, and crisis situations still require qualified help and real-world support. The final tradeoff remains yours.
Explore more useful Skills on DeepSkillChoose life-guide when everything feels tangled; life-decision-navigator when you are weighing one explicit choice; and life-os when the direction is clear but execution keeps slipping. You do not need to install all three.
No. It can surface assumptions, add options, compare risks, and design small experiments, but it does not fully know your life and will not bear the consequences. Treat the output as material for judgment, not an order.
Provide only what the current task requires. Prefer ranges, relationship descriptions, and de-identified facts over names, accounts, addresses, confidential company information, or full medical records.
No. Long-range direction is useful, but false precision creates brittle plans. Set a stage goal, preserve room to adapt, and use weekly or monthly reviews to update the path as new information arrives.